What do I do, anyway?

Classic DC Comics character The Question(photo credit Lunchbox Photography)

I’m addicted to consuming. In between checking my email and Twitter, I’m reading one of the kajillion blogs in my always-open Google Reader tab. Inside that kajillion, there is a small, select group of blogs that truly light my fire. I read every word of them. When Google tells me there’s a new post, suddenly the most important to-do of my day is to read that post.

IttyBiz is one of that select group. And today’s post, What do YOU do? The un-meme redux, gave some homework, which I’m going to do right here and right now.

(I don’t always do the homework Naomi gives her readers. See “addicted to consuming” above — most of the time I’d rather go read something else than sit down and take action on something I just read. But this particular un-meme just happens to dovetail perfectly with questions I’ve been asking myself about my own business lately, plus I’ve set a goal of posting more frequently, so here goes.)

Here are the questions Naomi posed, and my answers (keep in mind that all these answers are versions of works-in-progress, which is just how it should be).

What’s your game? What do you do?
I build websites and invent recipes for using them. I snap together all the behind-the-scenes technical bits like PayPal buttons, newsletter subscription forms, widgets, themes, and other stuff that makes normal people’s eyes glaze over. I make web technology work.

Also, I like to answer questions and share what I know…but more importantly, I want to spread the idea that regular people can bring their normal resourcefulness to bear when it comes to web technology. I don’t want my people to be dependent on me and my mad skillz. I want to teach myself out of a job, over and over again.

The way I do this is by teaching teleclasses (also webinars). Something about the conference-call format is perfect for me, and it allows even really shy people to listen and learn.

Why do you do it? Do you love it, or do you just have one of those creepy knacks?
Here’s what I love the most. There’s a specific moment when one of my people Gets It. Let’s say you call me during Open Office Hour to ask me a question, or join me for WordPress Swimming Lessons, and I explain something to you. And the light dawns: You realize that you Get It.

It can be something huge like “I really can run an online business!” or it can be something comparatively small, like “Oh, hey, now I understand how to add a link to a blog post!” The point is, you came in not knowing how to do something, maybe even not believing you’d ever know how. And yet you learned how. Not (entirely) because I’m such a genius teacher, but because you were willing to learn. Technology is just a thing you can learn, like anything else.

And apparently I have a creepy knack for leading friendly and intelligent teleclasses. I’m actually energized by teaching over the phone, which is weird because I’m an off-the-charts introvert who normally hates making phone calls.

Who are your customers? What kind of people would need or want what you offer?
The kind of person who cares a lot and wants to make a difference…people who have a capital-M Mission. Maybe it’s a second career, maybe it’s just making a few hundred bucks on the side, maybe it’s knitting and selling beautiful penwipers because the world needs more hand-knitted office supplies.

These people are naturally curious and resourceful, and they just happen to be temporarily stuck and overwhelmed by technological questions. They have a DIY mindset but they’re not sure how to apply that to the confusing world of websites and shopping carts. They need some handholding, some encouragement, and some practical steps. And they’ll take it from there, thanks.

What’s your marketing USP? Why should I buy from you instead of the other losers?
Well, you, Naomi, specifically, should probably not buy from me (you’ve got ninjas to handle all the tech stuff for you anyway).

But for those who don’t have your own personal ninjas, here’s the scoop:

  • I talk (and try to write) in plain English. I won’t talk down to you. I believe you are smart enough to learn what I teach.
  • I can tell you exactly which tech ingredients you need. So even if you start with a broad goal like “I need a website so I can sell my penwipers,” I know the questions to ask you so I can figure out whether you need a shopping cart, how you’re going to follow up with customers, and so on. Which means that I won’t try to sell you a bunch of fancy technological tools you don’t need.
  • I want to teach myself out of a job. I’m like training wheels for your website. At some point you’ll be riding all by yourself and I’ll wave and cheer as you disappear down the block.

What’s next for you? What’s the big plan?
Up until now, the bread-and-butter of my business has been installing WordPress. And the truth is, one-on-one services like that don’t scale.

So I’m going to be teaching more classes and doing less actual tech tweaking in the future. I’ve already decided that WordPress Swimming Lessons will be a quarterly event, at least for the next year. I’m doing lots of guest- and co-teaching with awesome peeps (stay tuned to this blog for details!). And I’m thinking up crazy new class ideas all the time.

I also just released my first product, a home-study version of a class I co-taught with the fabulous Shannon Wilkinson. We taught people how to get started with AWeber, and turned it into an audio-and-PDF do-it-yourself course called Love Your List.

I want to create more products, and I’m figuring out creative ways to do that because for me, the energy is all about the live class. Doing post-production work is very draining, so I get very very very stuck there (note to self: Hire some ninjas).

And that’s what I do. At least for now.

How about you?

Absolutely nothing on sale here today. Honest.

Black Friday, Schmack Schmiday.

I don’t go in for that nonsense. Never in my life have I spent the night in a Best Buy parking lot, waiting for 12:01 so I could get into the holiday spirit by being trampled by an insane mob while trying to get my mitts on a $99 plasma TV or whatever.

And I’m not going in for the crazy 75% off Internet-only sales either, whether it’s Black Friday or whatever the hip term for the Monday after Thanksgiving is. Mob Mentality Monday, methinks.

So if you were hoping to buy something cheap, all’s I’ve got is my regular stuff, at regular price. Sorry. Oh wait, I’m not sorry at all. Heh.

I’m totally serious. Let me repeat myself: No sales here! If you’re really desperate for an insane deal, though, you could do worse than to check these folks out:

  • Naomi over at Ittybiz is actually selling Online Business School for 75% off, and it’s going off the market in a few days. If you’ve been putting off buying it, now would be a good time.
  • Johnny B. Truant is offering his Zero to Business course for half-price, plus he’s giving a $100 discount on personal coaching. And he is one smart cookie.
  • This one isn’t technically a Black Friday sale, but the early-bird deadline for Mark Silver’s 2010 Opening the Moneyflow course is December 4. And he’s doing a free teleclass on December 2 called “You’ve got one year: Go!” His teleclasses are always gold, and totally not sales-hyp-ey. Highly recommended.

That is all. Back to your regularly scheduled retail extravaganza.

Me? I’ll be curled up with a good book, and occasionally checking Twitter so I can shake my head and tsk-tsk-tsk at reports of consumer-on-consumer savagery.

Happy Independence Day!

Tomorrow is the day that we Americans traditionally celebrate our independence by setting off explosives and drinking too much beer.

I prefer a kinder, gentler celebration, myself. I also like to think about the many meanings of “independence” and how they’re showing up in my life. July 4 is a nice sort-of-halfway point between the hoopla of New Year’s resolutions and the end-of-year taking-stock that can happen on Thanksgiving. So with 2009 half-over, here are my reflections on independence.

Independence as growing up

For instance, as children grow, they are supposed to develop a healthy independence from their parents. I see it in my own children.

(I’m not talking about them getting their own apartments quite yet — they’re still in elementary school! But every little step, like my son’s first sleepover and my daughter’s first Girl Scout meeting, is both a joy and a miniature heartbreak. Parents, you know what I’m talking about.)

I see it even in families with adult children (I’m at a family reunion this holiday weekend, reconnecting with people I haven’t seen in awhile, watching how families grow and change, mostly for the better).

The key word is healthy. Healthy independence is possible even in close-knit, loving families, of course. It doesn’t have to involve rejection or renunciation. But sometimes those things happen anyway. And then in the dance of family drama, sometimes the breach is healed, and sometimes not. A generous dose of time sometimes helps.

The push and pull between the families we’re born into (our parents, siblings, cousins, etc.) and the families we choose (lovers, spouses, children, close friends) can bring out the best and worst in us. My challenge is to let it bring out the best while remaining conscious and intentional. I guess that’s a challenge for all of us, actually.

Independence from worry

That leads to the subject of emotional health in general. For me, this whole year has been a journey to independence of an emotional and psychological kind. Which, paradoxically, has involved a greater reliance on friends, family, colleagues, and others for certain kinds of healthy support. There’s that word again. Hmm.

And there’s been a lot of questioning on my part about what I deserve. Do I deserve success? Do I deserve sadness? Do I deserve to be treated in certain ways or not in other ways? And I think I’m getting ready to be tired of that talk.

Know why? I do not want to live in a world where everyone gets what they deserve. In that world, there would be no unfair advantages or cheating to get ahead, but there would also be no such things as forgiveness and generosity.

So my challenge here is to stop thinking I do or don’t deserve something, and start thinking about what I really want, and what I’m willing to do to get it. Want to join me? Leave a comment here and let’s start a discussion.

Independence from The Man

But the third kind of independence is the one that actually looms largest for me this year, and I know it’s important for many of you too. I’m talking about financial independence, starting with independence from having to have a job.

I was asked recently if my son’s entry into kindergarten this fall (see parental joy and heartbreak, above) would free me up to finally get a real job, and I was frankly horrified.

The idea of spending any amount of time, let alone eight hours a day, in service to someone else’s goals, with no ability to make more money than my employer deems appropriate, and no job security? Laughable.

I fully realize that writing that sentence, in public view on the internet, makes me unemployable. And I say, bring it on. I positively relish being unemployable. Because honestly? I suck at being an employee. The views I just expressed have come from eight years of not having a day job, and growing into the idea that I’m a real, live business owner. And I think it would be really difficult (impossible, really) to un-grow that perspective. To stop wondering, “Is there a better way to do this?” and go back to “How do I fill my time until 5pm?” That sounds like death to me.

Which means I’ll embrace my independence from the complacency and false security of “having a real job” until I’m down to my last nickel.

Naomi Dunford is changing the world by helping 1000 people quit their jobs this year. I don’t qualify because I don’t have a job to quit, but I’d sure love to help her with that goal by pointing . If you like the idea of quitting your job, you may want to read the article she wrote last fall called Why We’re Broke and How to Fix It, which is a clarion call to declaring independence from the soul-sucking corporate machine.

Happy Independence Day, America. Happy Independence, my fellow small-business owners. May you get not what you deserve but what you truly want.
–Wendy Cholbi, your friendly neighborhood swim-goggle-wearing technology-to-English translator

“Is everything delightful?” or, why market to your existing customers

Two quick examples of why it’s great to actively sell to your existing customers:

1. “Is everything delightful?”

The other day I had lunch with a friend at one of my favorite local restaurants, Farm Artisan Foods. We were enjoying a sampling of tapas-like small plates, including a truly delicious salad that included herbed goat cheese, pickled beets, and roasted red peppers. Our server stopped by and asked “Is your salad wonderful?” and all I could do was nod (my mouth was full!).

What a funny question, I thought. Isn’t it a bit presumptious to say something like that? And I was still thinking about it  several tapas later when she did it again: She asked “Is everything delightful?” after we’d gotten everything we’d ordered. We said yes. Because it was true.

My conclusion: It was presumptious, and it was also great marketing. Here’s why:

  • Shows confidence in the product. The folks who run this restaurant seriously know their stuff. The chef makes a big deal about local, sustainable agriculture; the servers know everything about the dishes; the menu is seasonal. She knew full well that the salad was wonderful and the tapas delightful, before she asked. The leading question made it easy to agree. Presumptious, in a good way.
  • Trains customers to think your product is exceptional. Many restaurants have their servers come out at some point during the meal and ask “Is everyone doing OK?” or “How’s the food tonight?” or some similar open-ended question. Most customers respond “OK” or “fine” or occasionally ask for some more ketchup. When I, as a customer, am asked to agree that the food is wonderful and delightful, I actively think about the fact that the food is in fact wonderful and delightful. This interaction just went from a mundane check-in to a celebration of fine dining.
  • Acknowledges that the relationship doesn’t end with the sale. Once I’m in the restaurant and am eating, the sale is made. Why bother spending any more time or energy making me feel good about my food choices, or asking my opinion? There’s probably something sophisticated I could say here about customer retention, but basically it boils down to feeling appreciated as a customer. Not only will I go back to the restaurant, but I’m blogging about the experience two weeks later because my server asked me my opinion of the food in an interesting way.

2. Flowers for Father’s Day?

For Mother’s Day, I ordered flowers for my mom. Actually I ordered a real live plant because she likes them and no flowers would have to die to demonstrate my filial affection, but the ordering process was basically the same.

I wanted to support a local business, so instead of going with a national toll-free florist service, I looked up local florists in Denver, read some reviews, and settled on 5280 Flowers (it’s the Mile High City, get it?). I ordered straight from their website, despite the fact that the pictures aren’t very big and the ordering process isn’t quite as smooth as with an ecommerce giant. The flowering plant was delivered the next day, Mom was thrilled, and I was a satisfied customer.

End of story, right?

Not quite. Last week, six days before Father’s Day, I got an email from 5280 Flowers with “Father’s Day” in the subject line. It was a bit of a clunky email; not exactly perfectly formatted. Also, the first line was somewhat ominous:

“Fathers Day. Do not forget. Sunday June 21.”

But I read the email anyway because I was in the market for a Father’s Day gift. I wanted to send my dad something, but I would never have thought of flowers. I mean, we’re supposed to get our dads ties or mugs or weird electronic gadgets, right? Definitely not flowers, so why would I even consider shopping at a florist?

Well, as it turns out, this local florist also sells gift baskets, ranging from your basic Chiquita Banana fruit-cornucopia to teddy-bear baskets for new moms to … wait for it … barbeque and snack-food themed baskets for dads.

Perfect! So I called them up and ordered a custom basket, because several of their packaged baskets had different things I wanted, and the website had a clear message on every gift basket page telling me that baskets were customizable.

This business got an extra sale from me by showing me (in the right place at the right time) that they could provide more than flowers. They built on a previous interaction (my successful flower purchase) and offered me more. And I snapped it up and was happy to pay them.

Bonus tip: 5280 Flowers has two domain names: 5280Flowers.com and 5280Gourmet.com, so they can market themselves as a gourmet gift-basket shop even to people who would never buy flowers. The sites are interlinked and similar enough that I went back and forth a couple of times without realizing I was doing it. This kind of smart marketing is one reason that I recommend buying multiple domain names (they’re cheap, after all).

These two examples are straight from the leafy canopy of the Small-Business Tree. Yes, they both fall into traditional marketing, but they’re also great reminders that marketing isn’t just something you do to get customers. It’s something you do all the time, even in your interactions with existing customers.

And the florist example is also a great case study in the art of the upsell. They successfully upsold me three times: First, by getting me to shop with them for Father’s Day in the first place. Second, by offering customizable baskets so I had the option of going beyond the prepackaged deals. And third (or maybe this is just a part of the second one), the custom baskets are more expensive than the packaged ones, and I didn’t blink.

For more about respectful and successful upselling, check out the latest product I’ve purchased from Dave Navarro (@rockyourday) and Naomi Dunford (@ittybiz), Upsell 101. They’ll tell you exactly why I fell for the florist email, and how to get your own customers to fall for similar promotions…without being a Sleazy Marketer.

How am I doing with the lessons I’m learning from Upsell 101? Well, I’ll report back after I try some more of Dave and Naomi’s tips.

I’ll let you know how it goes! Happy Father’s Day, everybody!