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		<title>By: Giovanna Garcia</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-48</link>
		<dc:creator>Giovanna Garcia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 21:36:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Wendy,
It was great meeting you at SOBcon ‘09. I will be e-mail you the picutres soon.
I look forward to getting to know you better.
Have a great day!
Giovanna Garcia
Imperfect Action is better than No Action</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Wendy,<br />
It was great meeting you at SOBcon ‘09. I will be e-mail you the picutres soon.<br />
I look forward to getting to know you better.<br />
Have a great day!<br />
Giovanna Garcia<br />
Imperfect Action is better than No Action</p>
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		<title>By: @TheGirlPie</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-46</link>
		<dc:creator>@TheGirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 03:15:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah Johnny, NOW there are great big FOLLOW buttons -- HA!  You can&#039;t &#039;gaslight&#039; me ~ !

Hey Wendy, we all do it -- too busy helping others, and you guys are SO helping others -- keep up the good works!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah Johnny, NOW there are great big FOLLOW buttons &#8212; HA!  You can&#8217;t &#8216;gaslight&#8217; me ~ !</p>
<p>Hey Wendy, we all do it &#8212; too busy helping others, and you guys are SO helping others &#8212; keep up the good works!</p>
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		<title>By: Wendy Cholbi</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-45</link>
		<dc:creator>Wendy Cholbi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 02:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@TheGirlPie Oh, you got me good there. You are absolutely right. Totally a case of the cobbler&#039;s blog not having e-shoes. Er, something like that, anyway.

So check it out, I just added enormous &quot;follow Wendy&quot; and &quot;follow Mynde&quot; buttons below each of our tweet-sections in the sidebars. AND I added huge &quot;subscribe to the YWC blog&quot; buttons to both sidebars for good measure.

Thanks for the kick in the pants I needed to do this tweak. Maybe Our Right People will subscribe now that there&#039;s an obvious button to do it with!

(And thank you for your gracious compliments, too -- they&#039;re sincerely appreciated by this blogger-starter-upper!)

@Charlie thanks for weighing in here. Your example is timely and on point (you and Dave Navarro have each helped us in different, yet similar ways, and we&#039;ve been thinking of making our next product launch a full-on case study for his Launch the *** ebook, for mutual benefit).

When you really think about it, there are as many ways of coaching and subjects to coach on as there are coaches, and coachable clients. So it becomes a matter of naming and finding Our Right People -- because they&#039;re definitely out there somewhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@TheGirlPie Oh, you got me good there. You are absolutely right. Totally a case of the cobbler&#8217;s blog not having e-shoes. Er, something like that, anyway.</p>
<p>So check it out, I just added enormous &#8220;follow Wendy&#8221; and &#8220;follow Mynde&#8221; buttons below each of our tweet-sections in the sidebars. AND I added huge &#8220;subscribe to the YWC blog&#8221; buttons to both sidebars for good measure.</p>
<p>Thanks for the kick in the pants I needed to do this tweak. Maybe Our Right People will subscribe now that there&#8217;s an obvious button to do it with!</p>
<p>(And thank you for your gracious compliments, too &#8212; they&#8217;re sincerely appreciated by this blogger-starter-upper!)</p>
<p>@Charlie thanks for weighing in here. Your example is timely and on point (you and Dave Navarro have each helped us in different, yet similar ways, and we&#8217;ve been thinking of making our next product launch a full-on case study for his Launch the *** ebook, for mutual benefit).</p>
<p>When you really think about it, there are as many ways of coaching and subjects to coach on as there are coaches, and coachable clients. So it becomes a matter of naming and finding Our Right People &#8212; because they&#8217;re definitely out there somewhere.</p>
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		<title>By: Johnny B. Truant</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-44</link>
		<dc:creator>Johnny B. Truant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 02:17:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do think it boils down to audience. There are a billion and one people who want to learn this stuff, and the people who are going to gravitate to me are different from you folks.

I did have to jump in here to point out to GP that there is a LARGE &quot;Follow on Twitter&quot; button on BOTH sides of the page, too! :)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Johnny B. Truant&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://learntobeyourownva.com/free-self-hosted-wordpress-blog-setup-for-everyone/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;FREE SELF-HOSTED WORDPRESS BLOG SETUP FOR EVERYONE!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do think it boils down to audience. There are a billion and one people who want to learn this stuff, and the people who are going to gravitate to me are different from you folks.</p>
<p>I did have to jump in here to point out to GP that there is a LARGE &#8220;Follow on Twitter&#8221; button on BOTH sides of the page, too! <img src='http://www.wendycholbi.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>Johnny B. Truant&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://learntobeyourownva.com/free-self-hosted-wordpress-blog-setup-for-everyone/" rel="nofollow">FREE SELF-HOSTED WORDPRESS BLOG SETUP FOR EVERYONE!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Charlie</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-43</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 01:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great job on this one, Wendy. I was the same way with Dave Navarro for awhile until I really looked at 1) what we each offered and 2) who our right people were. There&#039;s a lot of overlap, but clearly, there&#039;s plenty for both of us to do our thing and support each other.

When us coaches figure out who we can help and how to help them, and then realize that we can help other coaches at the same time, then ideas of competition fall away. We&#039;re just each adding value differently.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Charlie&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/TX8Y8wcwNBA/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Why Are You Trying to Save Time?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great job on this one, Wendy. I was the same way with Dave Navarro for awhile until I really looked at 1) what we each offered and 2) who our right people were. There&#8217;s a lot of overlap, but clearly, there&#8217;s plenty for both of us to do our thing and support each other.</p>
<p>When us coaches figure out who we can help and how to help them, and then realize that we can help other coaches at the same time, then ideas of competition fall away. We&#8217;re just each adding value differently.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Charlie&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ProductiveFlourishing/~3/TX8Y8wcwNBA/" rel="nofollow">Why Are You Trying to Save Time?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: @TheGirlPie</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-42</link>
		<dc:creator>@TheGirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 01:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>PS:  HOW the HELL is there NOT a &#039;follow me&#039; twitter button on this page anywhere?  (I already DO follow you guys, but wanted a short cut to go tweet you something...)

Button, button, who&#039;s got the button ~ ?
(Raises eyebrow squarely at the blogger-starter-uppers...) Hmm?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PS:  HOW the HELL is there NOT a &#8216;follow me&#8217; twitter button on this page anywhere?  (I already DO follow you guys, but wanted a short cut to go tweet you something&#8230;)</p>
<p>Button, button, who&#8217;s got the button ~ ?<br />
(Raises eyebrow squarely at the blogger-starter-uppers&#8230;) Hmm?</p>
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		<title>By: GirlPie</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-41</link>
		<dc:creator>GirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 01:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>TOTALLY impressed by your POV here, Wendy -- LOVE how you approached the issue, broke it out, offered the distinctions, etc.  Just a great lesson in &#039;the more the merrier&#039; for all of us.  Many thanks for this post, a smart and graceful piece that really hits home.

( And yes, there&#039;s plenty of GirlPie to go around ~ ! )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>TOTALLY impressed by your POV here, Wendy &#8212; LOVE how you approached the issue, broke it out, offered the distinctions, etc.  Just a great lesson in &#8216;the more the merrier&#8217; for all of us.  Many thanks for this post, a smart and graceful piece that really hits home.</p>
<p>( And yes, there&#8217;s plenty of GirlPie to go around ~ ! )</p>
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		<title>By: Wendy Cholbi</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-40</link>
		<dc:creator>Wendy Cholbi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 00:11:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah I really do think.

Great, now I&#039;ve got Alanis Morrisette in my head, only instead of breathily singing &quot;isn&#039;t it ironic...don&#039;t&#039;cha think&quot; she&#039;s singing &quot;team up on a project...don&#039;t&#039;cha think?&quot;

And I am not going to get into the question of whether she&#039;s horribly misusing the word &quot;ironic.&quot;

Anyway. Project: Yes! I&#039;m all for it! And I still believe that even for the places where we might be in direct competition, our audiences are different enough that there&#039;s plenty of pie for both of us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah I really do think.</p>
<p>Great, now I&#8217;ve got Alanis Morrisette in my head, only instead of breathily singing &#8220;isn&#8217;t it ironic&#8230;don&#8217;t'cha think&#8221; she&#8217;s singing &#8220;team up on a project&#8230;don&#8217;t'cha think?&#8221;</p>
<p>And I am not going to get into the question of whether she&#8217;s horribly misusing the word &#8220;ironic.&#8221;</p>
<p>Anyway. Project: Yes! I&#8217;m all for it! And I still believe that even for the places where we might be in direct competition, our audiences are different enough that there&#8217;s plenty of pie for both of us.</p>
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		<title>By: Johnny B. Truant</title>
		<link>http://www.wendycholbi.com/2009/04/when-competition-isnt-really/comment-page-1/#comment-47</link>
		<dc:creator>Johnny B. Truant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 22:06:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Exaaaaaaactly. I hardly think these are competing services. Now, some of our other stuff? Hahaha... yes, in competition. But I&#039;m hardly for everyone, as you mentioned. I think many of your folks might not like me and vice versa.

Maybe we should team up on a project. Don&#039;t&#039;cha think?

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Johnny B. Truant&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://learntobeyourownva.com/free-self-hosted-wordpress-blog-setup-for-everyone/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;FREE SELF-HOSTED WORDPRESS BLOG SETUP FOR EVERYONE!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exaaaaaaactly. I hardly think these are competing services. Now, some of our other stuff? Hahaha&#8230; yes, in competition. But I&#8217;m hardly for everyone, as you mentioned. I think many of your folks might not like me and vice versa.</p>
<p>Maybe we should team up on a project. Don&#8217;t'cha think?</p>
<p><abbr><em>Johnny B. Truant&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://learntobeyourownva.com/free-self-hosted-wordpress-blog-setup-for-everyone/" rel="nofollow">FREE SELF-HOSTED WORDPRESS BLOG SETUP FOR EVERYONE!</a></em></abbr></p>
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